The three most significant decisions that shape our lives revolve around what I refer to as the "Three Fs": Faith, Family, and Future.

1. Faith: Our beliefs and values guide our actions and decisions. Whether it’s spiritual faith or faith in ourselves and others, this foundational aspect influences how we navigate challenges and opportunities. It acts as a compass, directing us toward what we hold to be true and meaningful.

2. Family: The connections we have with our family—whether biological or chosen—play a pivotal role in our lives. These relationships provide support, love, and a sense of belonging. The decisions we make regarding our family can have profound effects not just on our own lives, but also on the lives of those we love.

3. Future: The choices we make today pave the way for our future. This includes our career paths, personal development, and long-term goals. Being intentional about our future allows us to envision the life we want to create and take proactive steps toward achieving it.

When faced with decisions involving any of these three critical areas, we should approach them with an open heart and a readiness to reflect deeply. By doing so, we honor the importance of each "F" and ensure that our choices align with our values and aspirations.